Well nothing really has happened. I did have a date with a guy in early Feb and last week while I was out with a friend I ran in to him....on a date. Haha! Seriously, this is the stuff you see in movies, but sometimes my life is eventful.
Of course, him & I weren't exclusive but what makes him a douche bag is the fact that he kept stringing me along instead of being upfront. In a sense, I was his back up, and he made it clear I was. He kept telling me he was interested in me and that he wanted to hang out but yet whenever I asked him he would be busy and he never asked me to hang out. So to hell with that guy.
Roscoe and I got together again for a short reunion (I think I called him "Chris" in my last blog?). Everything was going well then I opened my mouth again. It was something small and dumb, honestly we could've gotten over it but he just didn't want to work it out or even try. An excuse really but I think that he's really just afraid. Afraid to be in a relationship again and everything that comes with that. I miss him a great deal. I never seem to have anything bad to say about him, I think that's why he's also stuck with me. He isn't a bad guy. I can't wait around for him though.
Besides those two, nothing new has really happened. Oh wait I lied.
There was one guy I was talking to online and he was really nice and sweet, we had a ton in common and whenever we had the chance we'd go online to reply to the others message. Anyways, we exchanged numbers and he added me on facebook. Then, nothing. He would respond to my text messages HOURS later and just say he was busy with school, now I went to college if I could update my facebook status I could respond to a text. The language in his texting also changed.
So like the woman I am, I called him out on it. He said "I'm so glad we met! We're gonna be such best friends!" <----------Terrible. Now to any guy who complains and says that they're only assholes because so many women put them in the friend zone, then let me tell you, I'm only a bitch because of all the guys that put me in the friend zone. Back to the subject at hand, anyways, it baffeled my mind! One day he's telling me I give him butterflies, I can come visit him whenever I want and stay in his dorm IN HIS BED WITH HIM no body tells that to someone they just like as a friend.
Honestly, I think he just wasn't attracted to me. Point blank. Of course I did say "If you're not attracted to me just tell me. Rather hear that then some BS lies." But did he come clean? NOPE! Then he felt offended because I didn't want to be his friend. Terrible. He really just wanted his cake and to eat it to huh?
Let me tell EVERYONE & ANYONE this, do NOT go on a dating site looking for friends. Why? Because it's a dating site and about 99% of the people there are looking for some thing more then friends. Wanna look for friends? Go on facebook, go anywhere in your city and you can easily make a friend like that lol.
I don't understand men. Really I don't.
